Ex-Stripper Wisdom: How to Make Him Want You in 30 Seconds or Less!
In a strip club, time is of the essence. A stripper, when faced with a man she would like to seduce in order to convince him to pay her for her time and little else, will bounce around a room all night trying to get the highest possible number of men to fall in love with her in the shortest amount of time possible. As a non-stripper, you can use these tricks to convince the men in your life to get what you want. The examples I used here involve a scenario in which a single woman can make a man she’s recently met hers for the purpose of hot sex, but these simple power shifts and attention-focusing tactics can be used by anyone who wants to wield a powerful, controlling sexual influence over a man.
1. Invade His Space If you want to be taken seriously by a man for a job or a long-term, family-approved girlfriendship, by all means, respect his personal space when you speak to him and let him decide for himself. But if you want to make him yours tonight, do the opposite. Stand close. Touch his arm. Sit in his lap. Behave as though you’ve already been to bed together. Men have a very hard time ignoring or rebuffing women who appeal directly to their sexual appetites, and they find women who are bold enough to do this fascinating because most women are not. Be the super-confident exception to the rule when you’re trying to seduce him.
2. Don’t Look Away Staring is not polite, of course, but since when has politeness been a sexual stimulant? Once you make eye contact, don’t let it go. Prolonged eye contact is invasive and uncomfortable because it forces the people sharing it to really see each other. This is the exact effect you want when you’re trying to seduce a man, though. Sharing eye contact is an intense bonding experience because as long as it’s happening, his attention is directed at you. The longer you gaze at each other, the more focused and powerful this attention becomes. This has a mesmeric effect. Ask for what you want right in the middle of a staring session–but only if you want to get it.
3. Use Body Language to Draw Attention to Your Best Assets This is the oldest trick in the books because it always works. Lick or bite your lips, making it look as though you don’t know you’re doing it. Adjust the neckline of your shirt to draw his attention to your breasts. Brush your hair out of your face. Arch your back and point your feet in his direction. These behaviors are the same ones women exhibit naturally in the presence of a man they desire sexually. By playing them up purposefully, you’ll be surprised at how quickly and easily you can control him.
4. Stimulate His Sense of Smell A good perfume applied correctly can go a long way when you want to attract a man. One spray on the back of your neck and another on your wrists is plenty. The effect you’re trying to produce with perfume is one of intimacy rather than obviousness, so don’t wear so much that everyone within three yards of you can smell it. Rather, you want to wear a small amount that only someone very close to you can smell. Once he catches an unexpected whiff of something beautiful at the same time that you are invading his space, he won’t want to let you get very far away again.
5. Nod Your Head “Yes” This is a subliminal sales technique that has been helping business men and women get what they want for decades. By nodding “yes,” you suggest that “yes” is what he is thinking. Nod at everything he says and everything you say. Like a puppet, you will have him nodding “yes” back at you as well. This affirmative energy flowing back and forth between you fosters a highly suggestive atmosphere in which you will be very unlikely to hear a “no.”
6. Issue A Challenge Now that you have him reduced to a quivering pile of jelly, let him know that he needs to work a little bit if he wants to cash in on the promise of all the sensuality you’ve already seemed to lay at his feet. This takes the form of asking him to do something, specifically for you. It can be literally anything. It doesn’t matter how goofy, inane, or immature your request is; in fact, it’s better if it’s something little and dumb. You want him to get used to doing what you want and recieving your favorable smile when he does it. Some ideas: “Hey, let me try on your watch.” “Would you mind getting the bartender’s attention for me?” “Will you hand me that napkin?” “Will you tell me the truth about the color I just had put on my nails?” You get the picture. Once he has completed the task, gaze adoringly like whatever he did was far more significant and difficult than it actually was.
7. Lower The Pitch of Your Voice You know the way your voice sounds right after you’ve been laid within an inch of your life? Kind of raspy and low-pitched and slow, as though the effort of speaking is almost too much. If you’ve tried all of these tricks and still need another one, this will seduce him right up in no time.
8. Pay Attention to the Details Everyone likes to feel special, including the man you want to attract. The opposite of playing hard to get is to pay very close attention to him, letting him feel not only that you’re interested, but you’re interested for all the right reasons. Scope him out. What’s he wearing? A wild Hawaiian shirt? You don’t just like it. You like, specifically, the magenta hibiscus right over his left pectoral, and the fact that he is quirky enough to wear this shirt to a formal event (or whatever). You don’t just like his earring, you like the fact that it is a diamond earring because you think men deserve to sparkle too. You don’t just like his shoes, you like the design of his shoes, which you then go on to describe to him. It doesn’t take much work to give a compliment that is a cut above the completely transparent ass-kissing that you’ve heard all the other women spout in an attempt to get a man. Go the extra two inches with this one and give him a specific compliment and he’ll think you really understand him.
9. Enlist the Help of His Friends If you’re just getting to know a man in a public place and he is interested, expect whatever friends he’s with to come over and scope you out at some point. There is nothing men love more than to make fun of each other, and the more awkward they can make a situation, the better. Do not be alarmed if they start teasing him while you’re there, telling stories about the time he accidentally punched their second grade teacher or shit himself on a college camping trip. The thing you want to do here is to laugh at everything they say, looking back at him and saying neutral stuff like, “really?” “You did that?” “I had no idea you were the type!” This kind of teasing is his buddies’ macho way of giving him their (weird man) version of the spotlight to keep your attention focused on him. Let them do this with good nature, or better yet, as an excuse to give him a protective squeeze.
10. Don’t Take His First Offer When it comes time to seal the deal, give him a chance to do a bit of the bargaining that men seem to love so much and that women seem to so frequently and tragically misunderstand. The idea is not to refuse him, but to force him to again put a little bit of work into changing his initial impulse to suit you. If he suggests his house, you want to go to yours. If he wants to leave immediately, you want another drink. If he wants your phone number, you are only prepared to give him an e-mail address. If he wants to make a date to take you to one restaurant, you would prefer another one. This last-minute assertion from someone who has been making their motives more or less clear will be, at this point, interestingly jarring. He will think you are not to be easily had, even if you totally are and have been the whole time. It’ll provide the little moment of conflict necessary to all great adventures. My best guess is that you’ll perform maybe two or three of these tricks before seeing the results you want all over the shocked and happy face of the man you’re dying to have. It would take a very resistant man indeed to not follow a woman who did these things anywhere.
Use these tips wisely, keeping in mind at all times your own safety, and you can pretty much have whoever you want.
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wow wonderful advice
but won’t the first tip make him think you’re too forthcoming and sl*tty?
This is particularly good advice , I particularly support Point 1 , Its extremely important to ” Get into that space ” ..Shows Intent and control .
I also particularly love the point about ” Detail ” , you must break the compliment down to ABSOLUTE detail , this gives your compliment ” Complete credibility ” ..It is amazing how many people Dont realise this .
Certainly Follow this VERY GOOD advice .
The only other thing ..to follow the advice properly ..It will take a LOT longer than 30 minutes .