Confidence = Effort + Success

The first piece of advice offered to anyone who wants to do anything is always “be confident.” Doubtlessly, this is good advice and the cornerstone to getting anything done.  Due to this, everyone wants it and everyone admires it.  But what if you aren’t confident? Should you attempt to get attract this amazing quality to yourself or should you just use your knowledge that everyone wishes they were more confident in order to prey on the insecurities of those around you?

Working in strip clubs, my experience has shown me that utilizing a combination of both is ultimately the most effective method of getting your way. But if you aren’t confident, you will not be convinced of your own worth in getting your own way and your attempts to manipulate people will alienate them rather than draw them closer to you in a helpful way. No one is less seductive than an insecure manipulator. So we’re going about this the old fashioned way: you first; a self worth tutorial.

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