Find his. Watch it. You can be sneaky or you can ask for it, but do it. This is a great way to discover his sexual psyche and use it for the benefit of your own sex life. First of all, a disclaimer on his porn: It’s not about you. I understand that this is frequently why it is upsetting to women when they find it, but really, you need to look at this as an opportunity to learn something rather than an opportunity to make him feel shameful about what turns him on.
Are you missing the undivided attention your man used to pay you at the beginning of your courtship? Have you ever wondered how you could make him look at you like he looked at you on your first or second date, back before you became a familiar fixture in his life? It’s easy enough if you know the secret to keeping him guessing!
The one thing men never get tired of is novelty. Sitting in the middle of a strip club, essentially a sensual candy store, male customers typically spend the first hour or so having a cocktail, relaxing, and scanning the strippers on the shift for any favorites. After another hour and another cocktail or two, the man will have forgotten his favorites in favor of whoever has approached him and made him feel the way he was hoping to feel when he walked into the club.
Wouldn’t you love to know without a shadow of a doubt that you could win any argument with your man, every single time? Imagine being one step ahead of him and using your knowledge to stop arguments before they even start. He’ll never know he’s been tricked if you do this right, and it’s so easy. Wouldn’t it be nice to stop fighting entirely and spend all of that extra time giggling under the covers together?
This is the secret that men don’t want you to know: they’re not as stupid as they want you to think they are.